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The Estate & Loss Records Guide

Grief comes with paperwork — dozens of institutions, each asking for proof. This guide orders the records work of loss: what to get immediately, what the first month asks of you, and what to preserve forever.

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Immediately

  • Order more certified death certificates than you think you need — ten is common; banks, insurers, agencies, and utilities each may demand an original.
  • Locate the will or trust and note who is named to act.
  • Secure the home, mail, vehicles, and anything of value — and start a simple log of actions taken.
  • Do not rush to close accounts or distribute anything; the sequence matters and a qualified professional can order it.

The first month's gathering

  • Identity documents of the deceased: birth certificate, Social Security card, marriage/divorce records, military discharge (DD-214).
  • Financial map: statements, deeds, titles, insurance policies, retirement accounts, debts.
  • Life insurance policies — and any employer, union, or association benefits nobody remembers.
  • Recent tax returns.
  • Bills that must keep being paid (insurance, mortgage, utilities) versus subscriptions to cancel.
In the full guide (3 more sections)
  • 🔒 Working with institutions
  • 🔒 Preserve forever
  • 🔒 For your own family

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